
Well, my faithful friends, while I would like the day to be today, I would think it a bit gay (excuse the expression) to have a son born on V-day. Cute for a girl, but not so much for the boy. Thus, the waiting game continues. I have had absolutely no desire to update the blog unless I could announce the arrival of our dear son, Elias. But alas, I felt the need to do it anyway lest I lose my viewers and get emails and phone calls asking if it's happened yet. May I just say that it gets rather exhausting to keep telling people that we have
not had the baby yet? Mostly because everyone's eager to know and we're more than eager for it to be done with. And still it hasn't happened.
My due date came and went last Sunday with no exciting news from the Gregson-Simrak clan.
HOWEVER, Becky called me bright and early that morning to say, "Well, Geniene, it looks like February 12th is a good day to have a baby." (I happened to think so too, but no avail for me.) I was overjoyed with her. She had been waiting for 6 days since her due date, Monday the 6th. She delivered a 9 lb, 1 oz bundle of pink girly girl at 7:35 that evening. Naturally, it occurred on the second day of the biggest snow storm in recent history. Her name: Abigail Elisabeth Sorensen. What's even better is that she did it without any medication whatsoever. Her first out of three children. That's definitely something to aspire to. My mother delivered 5 children w/o medication and I admire her for it.
As my dad pointed out, inspite of his own eagerness and anticipation of the impending birth of his first grandchild, there is reason to rejoice. Just in December, we all thought that Elias would come early and that his health was in jeapardy. How sad it would be if I wasn't able to carry babies to full-term! Although I was dilating early, they were able to stop it. Now he doesn't want to leave the dark, close security of the rapidly shrinking space between my pelvis and rib cage! We can rest in the fact that carrying other babies shouldn't be too worrisome for me and that Elias is a healthy, perfectly-sized bundle of joy (we hope) who will light up our life once he decides to join us. He has already begun to bring us joy, even though we wait with baited breath and eager anticipation for his arrival.
It's not easy living life in limbo. I suppose I should just relax and enjoy the time I have to myself to rest and get things done that I wouldn't otherwise have the chance to do. I've been contracting regularly for several days now (more intense than previous weeks). His head is as low as is possible. I'm effaced about 80% and as of yesterday, a
good 1 cm dilated. It sounds like I'm progressing and I know that the time is drawing near. It could be tonight, it could be next Wednesday when they induce me. Hopefully, it won't come to that. I'd like this to be as natural as possible. Please pray with us that when the time comes (hopefully it will be
very soon), Eli's birth will be smooth and complication-free.
Thanks for your concern and your enthusiastic interest. I really do appreciate it.