I'm sure most of you saw it coming. We thought for awhile that we could live here with two little ones. Many people do it all over the globe. They fit as many people as possible in a little confined space and they live quite happily that way. Some families share a bed or a bedroom. I, for one, don't understand that in the least unless it's something they can't avoid. But given a choice, I'll go with parents sleeping in one room, children sleeping in another. And being Americans, naturally, we have all the amenities that go with owning an infant and toddler. I just can't imagine setting up a swing in the living room on top of toddler toys. The smaller the individual, the bigger the amenities. We just don't have play room, barely enough living space.
So, here we are, married two and a half years and we're looking to move for the third time. As Dan pointed out, "we're not even a military family."
Although we'd talked about it, we hadn't actually started looking until Friday when Mom Simrak called about a place here in Chalfont for rent. I immediately called and went to look at it. It was a great deal: 2-story 3 BR, 1 B, laundry room (my absolute fave) complete with W/D, D/W, fridge, full attic and basement, plenty of storage space, a small fenced in back yard, $1250/mo utilities included. What a deal. We went back together to look at it on Saturday. Dan, of course, loved it too. The drawback: it was located directly on a busy road and it was owned by a storage facility. The house was shared by the office - a quiet business, but the idea of our back windows overlooking storage units and who-knows-who coming through the gates at all hours of the night wasn't our idea of safety or of a home. So we decided against that.
Then we talked to a friend who is a realtor. We decided to consider buying. There was a house right on Rt 152 that was a fixer upper, but we decided against that, as well. It seemed like a shady deal. The guy didn't know squat about the place: when the roof was put in, the well, the septic, nada. As first time home buyers, we didn't want to get in over our heads on a shady deal.
We looked at a house for rent last evening and loved it. Again, it's another great deal - a full house with fenced-in back and side yards, a stone fireplace that's, unfortunately, been blocked off for insurance purposes, a dining room complete with a table and chairs and a hutch if we want them, a kitchen with a breakfast bar and stools, a huge living room, two huge bedrooms and one decent-sized room, an office, plenty of storage space, a full kitchen, 1.5 baths, and a laundry room (we'd be responsible for finding machines). And the owner is involved in church, to beat. I don't know
what church, but the guy told us that he sometimes hosts missionaries in a neighboring house, which means he's probably missional-minded.
We're going to look at a place today that's owned by some people in our church. We're very excited about this one. It sounds like a fantastic deal in a quiet secluded place. Of course, it's north of here which means farther away from our family, but it's surrounded by trees and fields. We'll be closer to several friends from church and we'll be paying a lot less than
anywhere we'd find around here. It's only about 10 minutes farther from our families in Abington and about 15 minutes from church.
We're still praying for the Lord's clear leading as to whether we should continue looking for a house to purchase or if we should continue renting for a while. We know He won't let us down. We're in a lot of prayer over these things.